When a Michigan family court issues an order—whether it's for custody, parenting time, child support, or spousal support—it’s legally binding. But what happens when your ex doesn’t follow it?



Noncompliance can be frustrating, stressful, and even harmful to your well-being or your children’s. Fortunately, Michigan law provides remedies, and you don’t have to face the situation alone.

Common Violations of Family Court Orders

Some of the most frequent types of violations include:

• Refusing to pay court-ordered child or spousal support
• Withholding parenting time or not returning the child as scheduled
• Ignoring a custody arrangement or attempting to alienate the child
• Violating a restraining or no-contact order

If your ex is not honoring the court’s orders, it’s important to act promptly and legally.

Step 1: Document the Violation

Start by gathering evidence of the noncompliance. This might include:

• Missed child support payments (bank statements, payment records)
• Messages or emails refusing visitation or changes to parenting time
• Witnesses who observed custody exchanges or confrontations

Keep a detailed record of every violation. This documentation will be crucial if you need to return to court.

Step 2: Attempt to Resolve the Issue Peacefully

In some cases, a respectful conversation or reminder can resolve the issue. However, if your ex continues to ignore the order or becomes confrontational, it’s best to stop direct communication and seek legal help.

Step 3: File a Motion for Enforcement or Contempt

Michigan courts allow you to file a motion to enforce the existing order or hold your ex in contempt. A contempt motion can result in penalties such as fines, wage garnishment, suspension of a driver’s license, or even jail time if your ex continues to disobey.

At Zanolli Family Law, P.C., we can help you prepare the necessary paperwork and represent you in court. The goal is to protect your rights while ensuring compliance with the court’s orders.

Step 4: Consider Modifying the Order

If your ex consistently violates the order or circumstances have changed significantly, you may be able to request a modification. For example, if parenting time is frequently denied, the court may adjust the custody arrangement to better serve the child’s best interests.

Don’t Wait—Get Help from a Michigan Family Law Attorney

Family court orders are not suggestions—they are enforceable by law. If your ex is violating a court order, Zanolli Family Law, P.C. can help you take the necessary legal steps to restore order and protect your family. We proudly serve the Southfield community with experienced guidance and determined advocacy.